Tryst – A glimpse of my experiences

Going on a date in a small city isn’t easy, there are higher chances of you being caught, notice and identified. But to everyone who has ever fallen in love,we all know how that every such risk was worth it! For me It all started almost 13 years ago when I felt a strong desire to meet someone. We hadn’t seen each other before, and though I had a little fear but certainly no hitch to proceed. Coming from a modest family background, revelations about a probably date was a big no-no; even I had to hide it from my elder sister and brother. How could I disclose when even I had no clue about how the other person looked like? I just had an beautiful feeling and for the first time I decided to listen to my heart and proceed.

Let me tell you it was not a tinder or an orkut date; our connection was purely coincidental. And the day I met I affirmed about how right I was since the beginning and there can be nobody else for me than him!

But then as they say’ to stay alive you need to meet’ but to find a place was such a tedious task, firstly it need to be private as well as crowded, secondly that shouldn’t be too expensive as we both were students at that time with apparently no pocket money , thirdly it had to special; very very special each time!

So that was the time when I started exploring my own city, to find cocoons for tryst and stay with my love a little more secretively. God spare me that my family shouldn’t be reading this but once we went to an amusement park located far away from my place and actually had multiple rides just to talk to each other without being noticed. And then we went to another water park for another date as he came especially after 3-4 months to meet me; yes we were in a long-distance relationship. In sometime we had already began earning but even then our expenses were huge and earnings limited so we had to shrink our dates to far-located parks and adventure destinations.

The day when we first met, after coming out of the cafe we decided to walk till the first corner. In half an hour we both realized that we were still walking, though not holding each other’s hands but feeling the depth of one another’s simplicity and comfort amidst the chaos of lush green trees and passing by vehicles. For me walking next to your beloved without any worry of being noticed is the perfect tryst one can truly be blessed with.

I still miss that vibrant aura when in those few hundred steps, we gave each other a chance to feel a budding love that I can sense even today.

So no matter that today we can easily afford to fly to our favorite destination ( okay once in 2-3 years ) or we can groove at a famous bar or pub; my favorite will always be that green alley of my old town.

That’s all about me, so tell me guys; what’s your favorite destination for a romantic rendezvous? 

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12 thoughts on “Tryst – A glimpse of my experiences

  1. So cute! planning and executing secret rendezvous is both exciting and scary at the same time. The butterflies in the stomach notwithstanding! Nice one Arti. As for your question, I do have one romantic walk. It was when I was 9 months pregnant and my husband came to meet me. We went out for a long walk and sat in a park and talked a lot. We had not done that for a long time, so it became kind of sweet.

    Cheers,
    Meena
    http://www.balconysunrise.wordpress.com

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    1. Thank you so much Meena for the kind encouragement, when I was pregnant with my second child, even a minute alone was difficult to find. But one night I just lit few candles, poured juice in the wine glasses and sat in the living room for a while before my daughter woke up ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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  2. Beautiful post Arti, and wonderfully expressed.
    My perfect romantic rendezvous is anywhere my husband takes me, besides I love to go for long walks with him holding his hands and talking about everything..we are heading for Kerala in two days.

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  3. You are so lucky…I envy you the tryst ๐Ÿ™‚ … I never went on a date ever.I was married off at 19 against my wishes but later I found he was the best husband in the world but he left me too soon.

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