Flowers or Hugs- You decide 

You are such a loving person, you never forget your marriage anniversary. And what a yum lush cake that you just ordered with those fresh flowers for your lucky spouse.. She will be so delighted to see your preparations. 

Sorry but just a personal question, do you also remember the last time you hugged her tightly?? I know you remain so busy all days, entire weeks, full months, round the year with your office commitments and deadlines. This scenario is almost same in every household and so is the leftover time spend with the smartphone on the bed with the partner lying behind on the other side of the bed waiting for your one glimpse ; yes just one glimpse but something that she can claim exclusively only for herself…

Ya I know there are constant battles and you really get tired listening to tittle – tattles from her. Most of the time you don’t hear anything new or ‘constructive’ from her. It’s same boring, nagging, complaints, frustrations and often she hits back at you with her knifed words but isn’t she the same girl that you were once in love with?? Maybe the origin of her frustrations is again that ‘one glimpse’ and nothing else.. When was the last time you spoke to her?? 

Too hard to recollect, right… 

By the way, were you in love with her or you still love her?? Because trust me she still loves you and that’s the reason she is showing her frustrations to you and not to anyone else.. 

Because she married you and the last night as you slept without ‘noticing’ her tears; and she still cried endlessly for hours was because you are her life, her partner. She is dying for your love, do you know that?? 

And honestly she is really an insane person and I have actually seen so many foolish souls like her. But before you give me a lame explanation, let me remind you that you too are the culprit like many others. 

Because YOU assured her from the time you met her that you will be with her in every moment. You will never feel her lonely in her sorrows and hard times. You will always support her, guide her and will understand her even if the entire world will stand opposite. You held her hands, assured her and brought her in your life. With time things got changed and even if the life’s situations have hit you up and down; still in all these juggles you have maintained your remembrances for the anniversaries and birthdays but not the very essence of your relationship which is actually nothing but again that ‘one glimpse’ ; the time when she needs you most.

So sometimes it really doesn’t matter which cake or flowers you bought, what can really make a difference is your warm hug, a genuine smile, an honest assurance and a gentle touch; that you are there with her and nothing has changed between you two over the years.

You loved her for her happy eyes, 

You loved her for her smile, 

You loved her for her confidence, 

You loved her for her grace, 

You loved her for her love for you, 

And everything that matters to her matters to you too.. 

So what has changed today? 

Nevertheless online orders, cakes, flowers are preferred choices till the time you can happily and easily execute but when you will turn old; are you sure you will have enough memories to cherish, the time when there will exist except  you two?? 

Maybe your partner is still lying beside you with her moist eyes while you are tiredly gazing at your window screen. Why should I remind how content she might feel if you will quickly drag her close to yourself followed with a small kiss or something? You are not obligated for anything, it’s your life.

You showed her the dreams and now you are her reality. She isn’t waiting for any other miracle to happen. 

You loved her and probably you still love her. Love never had any synonyms in Ego, why should it had now? 

You were so good at expressing your love, trust me you are still good at. You never need any push to express your love, but if you need someone now; why to hesitate?

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Today I have started to live a new life. Today I aim to look beyond what's apparent and wish to explore a new world. Today I feel like to dive into an ocean of thoughts. Today I have realized that there was there was never any yesterday for me, its been always today!! My world encircles around my baby, biggy-baby (i.e my hubby) and my thoughts. Whether I'm free or occupied with stuff, I always think, dream about my thoughts, feelings and enjoy when my words gain visibility. I'm not any writer but recently I have fallen in love with writing and since then, this love is gaining momentum with every moment!! You can also read my blogs at : http://www.mycity4kids.com/parenting/droplets-of-thoughts-of-a-mum-wife-woman-and-much-more http://sweetberriesoflife.blogspot.in/

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